Mongo OpenTelemetry spans don't match Sentry spans

[timfish]

Which SDK are you using?

@sentry/node-experimental

Expected Result

Spans should closely resemble Sentry spans

Actual Result

• description is completely different:
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• data.db.mongodb.doc are missing
• data.db.mongodb.query are missing
• data.db.mongodb.filter are missing
• data.db.mongodb.update are missing
• data.db.operation - xxxOne becomes xxx, ie. fineOne becomes find, updateOne becomes update:
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[AbhiPrasad]

I think these changes are fine - they map to https://opentelemetry.io/docs/specs/semconv/database/mongodb/. We were collecting this additional info, but they aren't being used in the product in any way atm.

Actually serializing the operations in the current way has PII issues, we should actually gate this behind sendDefaultPii - let me make the change!!