(#2819) fix nvidia dependency versions for cuda13

[bghira]

Closes #2819

This pull request updates how CUDA 13 runtime dependencies are managed for different installation extras, ensuring that certain low-level CUDA dependencies are only included in the Transformer Engine-related extras, not in the general CUDA 13 or CUDA 13 nightly extras. It also updates the corresponding tests to reflect these changes.

Dependency management updates:

• Removed the unpacking of CUDA13_RUNTIME_DEPENDENCIES from both the cuda13 and cuda13-nightly extras in setup.py, so these dependencies are no longer included for those extras. [1] [2]

Testing and validation improvements:

• Updated the test test_cuda13_runtime_pins_are_limited_to_transformerengine_extras in tests/test_setup_platform_dependencies.py to ensure that CUDA 13 runtime dependencies are excluded from the cuda13 and cuda13-nightly extras but are included in the transformerengine-cuda13 and cuda13-transformerengine extras, which must also include the appropriate transformer_engine dependency.