Parquet: Use native getRowIndexOffset support instead of calculating it

[wypoon]

This is an update of #6056.
In the original PR, some APIs were changed which are now checked by revapi. Instead of changing the APIs, I have retained but deprecated the original versions of the methods and added new versions with default implementations.
I have also ported the change in ColumnarBatchReader to Spark 3.4 and 3.5.

[nastra]

I don't think we can break existing APIs without deprecating them first. Please check https://iceberg.apache.org/contribute/#adding-new-functionality-without-breaking-apis

[wypoon]

@nastra thanks for the pointer. I have retained the old versions of the methods but deprecated them.

[wypoon]

@flyrain I have updated your PR. Please review. cc @chenjunjiedada @Fokko.
One thing I'd like to add is a test that would fail with Parquet 1.12.3 (which has the bug PARQUET-2161) but would pass now. Suggestions on such a test would be welcome.

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[huaxingao]

@wypoon Would you like to reopen this PR?

[wypoon]

@huaxingao yes, I'll be happy to reopen it. The versions in the deprecation comments need to be updated. I'll update the PR soon.

[wypoon]

I don't see how to reopen this. I have opened a new PR, #11520.