Add update support to reconcile_connections in service attachment

[slevenick]

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compute: added update support for `reconcile_connections` in `google_compute_service_attachment`

[modular-magician]

Hi there, I'm the Modular magician. I've detected the following information about your changes:

Diff report

Your PR generated some diffs in downstreams - here they are.

Terraform GA: Diff ( 2 files changed, 7 insertions(+), 1 deletion(-))
Terraform Beta: Diff ( 2 files changed, 7 insertions(+), 1 deletion(-))

[modular-magician]

Tests analytics

Total tests: 3008
Passed tests 2711
Skipped tests: 296
Affected tests: 1

Action taken

Found 1 affected test(s) by replaying old test recordings. Starting RECORDING based on the most recent commit. Click here to see the affected tests

TestAccComputeServiceAttachment_serviceAttachmentBasicExampleUpdate

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[modular-magician]

$\textcolor{green}{\textsf{Tests passed during RECORDING mode:}}$
TestAccComputeServiceAttachment_serviceAttachmentBasicExampleUpdate[Debug log]

Rerun these tests in REPLAYING mode to catch issues

$\textcolor{green}{\textsf{No issues found for passed tests after REPLAYING rerun.}}$

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